“When it feels like the next logical step - then it comes right in. So your work, as you stand in the absence of something wanted, is to pretend it, to imagine it, to become so familiar with the essence of what it would feel like when it comes, that even though it hasn’t come, you still feel good. (You get this?) Even though my lover hasn’t come yet, I’m excited about the idea of my lover coming. I’m anticipating. I feel excited about it. But if I’m depressed, if I’m discouraged, if I feel like "all the good ones are taken," then, it still doesn't feel like the next logical step.  The perfect creative stance is: Satisfied with what-is and eager for more!”